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KuvVvjcvov MÖv‡g Rb¥MÖnY K‡ib| wZwb 1858 mv‡j KjKvZv wek¦we`¨vjq †_‡K we.G cix¶vq DËxY© nb Ges 

†m eQiB †WcywU g¨vwR‡÷ªU I †WcywU Kv‡j±i c‡ ` PvKwi‡Z wbhy³ nb| ew¼gP›`ª †ZwÎk eQi GKB c‡` 

PvKwi K‡i 1891 mv‡j Aemi MÖnY K‡ib| wZwb cvV¨ve ¯’vqB mvwnZ¨PP©v ïi“ K‡ib| Zuvi Amvgvb¨ K…wZZ¡ 

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Dcb¨vm `y‡M©kbw›`bx evsjv K_vmvwn‡Z¨ GK bew`Mš— m„ wó K‡i| Zuvi Ab¨vb¨ Dcb¨vm n‡jv : KcvjKzÊjv, 

g„Yvwjbx, wele„¶, Bw›`iv, hyMjv½yixq, ivavivbx, P›`ª‡kLi, iRbx, K…òKv‡š—i DBj, ivRwmsn, Avb›`gV, †`ex 

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ˆekvL gvm weev‡ni gvm| Avwg 1jv ˆekv‡L bmx  eveyi dzjevMv‡b ewmqv GKwU weevn †`wLjvg| 

fwel¨r eiKb¨vw`‡Mi wk¶v_© wjwLqv ivwL‡ZwQ|

gwj− Kv dz‡ji weevn| ˆeKvjшkke AemvbcÖvq, KwjK v-Kb¨v weevn‡hvM¨v nBqv Avwmj| Kb¨vi wcZv 

eo‡jvK b‡n, ¶y`ª e„¶, Zvnv‡Z Avevi A‡bK¸wj Kb¨vfvivMÖ¯—| m¤^‡Üi A‡bK K_v nB‡ZwQj, wKš‘

†KvbUv w¯’i nq bvB| D`¨v‡bi ivRv ¯’jcÙ wb‡`©vl  cvÎ e‡U, wKš‘ No eo DuPz, ¯’jcÙ AZ `~i bvwgj 

bv| Rev G weev‡n Am¤§Z wQj bv, wKš‘ Rev eo ivMx, Kb¨vKZ©v wcQvB‡jb| MÜivR cvÎ fv‡jv, wKš‘ 

eo †`gvM, cÖvq Zuvnvi evi cvIqv hvq bv|  GBi~c Ae¨e¯’vi mg‡q ågiivR NUK nBqv gwj − Kv-

e„¶m`‡b Dcw¯’Z nB‡jb| wZwb Avwmqv ewj‡jb, Ô¸Y&& ! ¸Y&& ! ¸Y&& †g‡q Av‡Q ?Õ 

gwj− Kve„¶ cvZv bvwoqv mvq w`‡jb, ÔAv‡Q !Õ ågi cÎvmb MÖnY Kwiqv ewj‡jb, Ô¸Y&& ¸Y&& ¸Y&& ! ¸Y&& 

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e„¶, kvLv bZ Kwiqv gyw`Zbqbv Ae¸ÉbeZx Kb¨v †`LvB‡jb| 

ågi GKevi e„¶‡K cÖ`w¶Y Kwiqv Avwmqv ewj‡jb, Ô¸Y&& ! ¸Y&& ! ¸Y&& ! ¸Y †`wL‡Z PvB| †NvgUv †Lvj|Õ

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A‡c¶v Ki, Avwg gyL †`LvB‡ZwQ|Õ

ågi †fuv Kwiqv ¯’jc‡Ùi ˆeVKLvbvq wMqv ivRc y‡Îi m‡½ BqviwK Kwi‡Z ewm‡jb| Gw`‡K gwj −Kvi 

mܨvVvKzivYx-w`w` Avwmqv Zvnv‡K KZ eySvB‡Z jvwMj Ñ ewjj, Ôw`w`, GKevi †Nvg&&Uv †Lvj Ñ bB‡j, 

ei Avwm‡e bv Ñ j²x Avgvi, Puv`  Avgvi, †mvbv Avgvi, BZ¨vw`|Õ KwjKv KZevi Nvo bvwoj, KZevi 

ivM Kwiqv gyL NyivBj, KZ evi ewjj, ÔVvb&&w`w`, ZzB  hv !Õ wKš‘ †k‡l mܨvi wmœ» ¯^fv‡e gy» nBqv

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gyL Lywjj| ZLb NUK gnvkq †fuv Kwiqv ivRevox nB‡Z bvwgqv Avwmqv NUKvjx‡Z gb w`‡jb| Kb¨vi 

cwig‡j gy» nBqv ewj‡jb, Ô¸Y&& ¸Y&& ¸Y&& ¸Y ¸Yv¸Y&& ! Kb¨v ¸YeZx e‡U| N‡i gay KZ ?Õ 

Kb¨vKZ©v e„¶ ewj‡jb, Ôd`© w`‡eb, Kovq MÊvq eySvBqv w`‡e|Õ ågi ewj‡jb, Ô¸Y&& ¸Y&&, Avcbvi

A‡bK ¸Y Ñ NUKvjxUv ?Õ

Kb¨vKZ©v kvLv bvwoqv mvq w`j, ÔZvI n‡e|Õ

ågiÑÔewj NUKvjxi wKQz AvMvg w`‡j nq bv ?Õ bM` `vb eo ¸YѸY&& ¸Y&& ¸Y&|Õ

¶z`ª e„¶wU ZLb wei³ nBqv, mKj kvLv bvwoqv ewjj, ÔAv‡M e‡ii K_v ej Ñ ei †K ?Õ

ågiÑÔei AwZ mycvÎ|Ñ Zuvi A‡bK ¸Y-bÑb&|Õ

G mKj K‡_vcK_b gby‡l¨ ïwb‡Z cvq bv, Avwg †Kej w`e¨ KY© cvBqvB G mKj ïwb‡ZwQjvg| Avwg 

ïwb‡Z jvwMjvg, KzjvPvh© gnvkq, cvLv Svwoqv, Qq  cv QovBqv †Mvjv‡ei gwngv KxZ©b Kwi‡ZwQ‡jb| 

ewj‡ZwQ‡jb †h, †Mvjve esk eo Kjxb; †Kb bv, Bnviv Ôdz‡jÕ †gj| hw` ej, mKj dzjB dz‡j,

Z_vwc †Mvjv‡ei †MŠie AwaK; †Kb bv, Bnviv mv¶vr evÂvgvjxi mš—vb; Zvnvi ¯^n¯—‡ivwcZ| hw` ej, 

G dz‡j KuvUv Av‡Q, †Kvb&& Kz‡j ev †Kvb&& dz‡j bvB ?

hvnv nDK, NUKivR †Kvbi~‡c m¤^Ü w¯’i Kwiqv, †euv Kwiqv Dwoqv wMqv, †Mvjve eveyi evwo‡Z Lei

w`‡jb| †Mvjve, ZLb evZv‡mi m‡½ bvwPqv bvwP qv, nvwmqv nvwmqv, jvdvBqv jvdvBqv †Ljv 

Kwi‡ZwQj, weev‡ni bvg ïwbqv Avn¬vw`Z nBqv Kb ¨vi eqm wRÁvmv Kwij| ågi ewjj, ÔAvwR Kvwj 

dzwU‡e|Õ

†Mvaywj jMœ Dcw¯’Z, †Mvjve weev‡n hvÎvi D‡`¨vM  Kwi‡Z jvwM‡jb| Dw”P½ov bner evRvB‡Z Avi¤¢ 

Kwij ; †gŠgvwQ mvbvB‡qi evqbv jBqvwQj, wKš‘  ivZKvbv ewjqv m‡½ hvB‡Z cvwij bv| L‡`¨v‡Ziv 

Svo awij ; AvKv‡k ZvivevwR nB‡Z jvwMj| †Kvw Kj Av‡M Av‡M dzKivB‡Z jvwMj| A‡bK eihvÎv 

Pwjj; ¯^qs ivRKzgvi ¯’jcÙ w`ev emv‡b Amy¯’Ki ewjqv Avwm‡Z cvwi ‡jb bv, wKš‘ Rev‡Mvôx Ñ †k¦Z 

Rev, i³ Rev, Ri` Rev cÖf…wZ mes‡k AvwmqvwQ j| Kiex‡ii `j, †m‡K‡j ivRvw`‡Mi gZ eo D”P 

Wv‡j Pwoqv Avwmqv Dcw¯’Z nBj| †muDwZ bxZei  nB‡e ewjqv, mvwRqv Avwmqv `ywj‡Z jvwMj| 

Mi‡`i †Rvo cwiqv Puvcv Avwmqv `uvovBj Ñ DMÖ MÜ QzwU‡Z jvwMj| MÜiv‡R iv eo evnvi w`qv, `‡j 

`‡j Avwmqv, MÜ wejvBqv †`k gvZvB‡Z jvwMj| A‡ kvK †bkvq jvj nBqv Avwmqv Dcw¯’Z; m‡½ GK 

cvj wcc&&ov †gvmv‡qe nBqv Avwmqv ‡Q; Zvnv‡`i ¸‡Yi m‡½ m¤^Ü bvB,  wKš‘ `uv‡Zi R¡vjv eoцKvb&& 

weev‡n bv Gi~c eihvÎ †Rv‡U, Avi †Kvb&& weev‡n bv Zvnviv ûj dzUvBqv weev` evavq ? Kzi“eyK KzUR

cÖf…wZ AviI A‡bK eihvÎ AvwmqvwQ‡jb, NUK gnvk ‡qi Kv‡Q Zuvnv‡`i cwiPq ïwb‡eb| me©ÎB wZwb 

hvZvqvZ K‡ib Ges wKQz wKQz gay cvBqv _v‡Kb|

AvgviI wbgš¿Y wQj, AvwgI †Mjvg| †`wL, eic‡ ¶i eo wec`| evZvm evn‡Ki evqbv jBqvwQ‡jb; 

ZLb ûuÑûg Kwiqv A‡bK gi&&`vwb KwiqvwQ‡jb, wKš‘ Kv‡Ri mgq †Kv_vq jyKvB‡jb, †Kn LyuwRqv cvq

14     gva¨wgK evsjv mvwnZ¨ 

 

bv| †`wLjvg, ei eihvÎ, mK‡j AevK nBqv w¯’ifv‡e `uvovBqv Av‡Qb| gwj −

Kvw`‡Mi Kzj hvq 

†`wLqv, AvwgB evn‡Ki Kvh© ¯^xKvi Kwijvg| ei, eihvÎ mKj‡K Zzwjqv jBqv gwj−

Kvcy‡i †Mjvg| 

†mLv‡b †`wLjvg, Kb¨vKzj, mKj fwMbx, Avn¬v‡` †N vgUv Lywjqv gyL dzUvBqv, cwigj QzUvBqv, my‡Li 

nvwm nvwm‡Z‡Q| †`wLjvg, cvZvq cvZvq RovRwo, M‡ Üi fvÊv‡i QovQwo cwoqv wMqv‡QÑi~‡ci fv‡i 

mK‡j fvw½qv cwo‡Z‡Q| hyw_, gvjZx, eKzj, iRbx MÜv cÖf…wZ G‡qvMY ¯¿x-AvPvi Kwiqv eiY Kwij| 

†`wLjvg, cy‡ivwnZ Dcw¯’Z; bmx eveyi begelx©qv Kb¨v  (Rxeš— KzmygcywcYx) KzmygjZv m~P myZv jBqv 

`uvovBqv Av‡Q; Kb¨vKZ©v Kb¨v m¤úª`vb Kwi‡jb; cy‡ivwnZ gnvkq `yBRb‡K GK m~Zvq Muvw_qv MuvUQov 

euvwaqv w`‡jb|

ZLb ei‡K evmiÑN‡i jBqv †Mj| KZ †h imgqx gaygqx my›`ix †mLv‡b ei‡K †Nwiqv ewmj, Zvnv wK 

ewje| cÖvPxbv VvKzivYxw`w` UMi mv`v cÖv‡Y euva v iwmKZv Kwi‡Z Kwi‡Z ïKvBqv DwV‡jb| i½‡Yi 

iv½vgy‡L nvwm a‡i bv| hyB, K‡b¨i mB, K‡b¨i Kv‡Q wMqv ïBj; iRbxMÜv‡K ei ZvoKv iv¶mx ewjqv

KZ Zvgvmv Kwij; eKzj G‡K evwjKv, Zv‡Z hZ MyY, ZZ i~c b‡n; GK‡Kv‡Y wMqv Pzc Kwiqv ewmqv

iwnj; Avi Szg&&Kv dzj eo gvby‡li M„wnYxi gZ †gvUv bxj kvox QovBqv RgKvBqv ewmj| ZLbÑ 

ÔKgjKvKvÑIV evwo hvBÑ ivZ n‡q‡Q, I wK, Xz‡j co‡e †h ?Õ

KzmygjZv GB K_v ewjqv Avgvi Mv †Vwj‡ZwQj;  Ñ PgK nB‡j, †`wLjvg wKQzB bvB| †mB cy®úevmi 

†Kv_vq wgwkj ? Ñ g‡b Kwijvg, msmvi AwbZ¨B  e‡UÑGB Av‡Q GB bvB| †m ig¨ evmi †K_vq 

†Mj,Ñ †mB nvm¨gyLx ïåw¯§Zmyavgqx cy®úmy›`ixmK j †Kv_vq †Mj ? †hLv‡b me hvB‡e, †mBLv‡bÑ 

¯§„wZi `c©YZ‡j, f~ZmvMiM‡f©| †hLv‡b ivRv cÖRv , ce©Z mgy`ª, MÖn b¶Îvw` wMqv‡Q ev hvB‡e, 

†mBLv‡b Ñ aŸsmcy‡i! GB weev‡ni b¨vq me k~‡b¨ wgkvB‡e, me evZv‡m Mwjqv hvB‡e Ñ †Kej _vwK‡e 

Ñ Kx ? †fvM ? bv, †fvM¨ bv _vwK‡j †fvM _vwK‡Z cv‡i bv| Z‡e Kx ? ¯§„wZ ?

Kzmyg ewjj, ÔIV bvÑwK K‡”Pv ?Õ

Avwg ewjjvg, Ô`~i cvMwj, Avwg we‡q w`w”Qjvg|Õ

Kzmyg †Nu‡l G‡m, †n‡m †n‡m Kv‡Q `uvovBqv Av`i Kwiqv wRÁvmv Kwij, ÔKvi we‡q, KvKv ?Õ 

Avwg ewjjvg, Ôdz‡ji we‡q|Õ

ÔIt †cvov Kcvj, dz‡ji ? Avwg ewj wK ! AvwgI †h GB dz‡ji we‡q w`‡qwQ|Õ

ÔKB ?Õ

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